9 YEARS!!!

Today marks my 9-year anniversary as a prostate cancer survivor! It feels great to say that, even more so to live it. I don’t deserve to be here. God’s mercy is very real, and it’s great to be used for His purpose in my survival. Next year I’m going to ramp up the awareness by starting a survival group at my church (been long enough). I’ve received some great information from Zero Cancer (http://zerocancer.org) which will help me big time to inform men in my circle to know why it’s such a great deal. Far too many of us don’t know; many more don’t care to know. As a result, too many die from something that can be diagnosed at an early stage and be treated. I’m really looking forward to 2016! I’d really, really like to partner with major sports organizations to get the word out! #nfl #nba #mlb

The Challenge of Raising Awareness

I’m an NFL fan. More specifically, I’m a Dallas Cowboys fan!!! (hello, haters) I went to the first season opener against the New York Giants (what an upset at the end!). I ran into a former Cowboy and church member who will remain nameless (mainly because I forgot to ask if I could mention him out of respect). But I took the opportunity to ask him: “What would it take to get the #NFL to raise awareness for prostate cancer?” Without hesitation, he replied: “For someone famous to die from it.” I sort of figured this out a year ago or so and mentioned it in a previous post. It’s a sad truth I assume. I find it also an either-or situation. Either you have to be famous and die from the disease, or just famous. Does it really take that? I’m neither famous (and not trying to be) nor am I dead. I’m alive by the grace of God, totally. But I’m pushing hard with posts, tweets, and hashtags to get the attention of a few athletic associations who each have a massive male audience, and an even more massive influence on them. The month of October is always filled with pink on the football field by players, coaching staff and fans in the stands. Even the artificial and natural turf of the fields are arrayed with the hue. I’m totally for raising awareness for #breastcancer with my sisters. But why should every September go by and there’s not one mention of prostate cancer awareness on the football field, baseball diamond, or any other major sport with light blue or cyan trimmed jerseys, helmets, and caps? Too many men ages 35+ watch the games religiously, and many of these same men will not get screened. Most don’t think about it. Still others do, but refuse to do anything because they don’t want the few seconds of uncomfortable experience. I’ve experience the few seconds of discomfort (digital rectal exam, along with PSA) and avoided weeks, months, and years (maybe) of utter discomfort by going through more rigorous treatment, or worse, suffering from an advanced stage as my body slowly, or rapidly, deteriorates. I had no symptoms. When that happens, now you’re talking about an advanced stage. All it took was to hear the announcement of a free screening and upon going, getting a phone call a week later informing me of a high PSA. Read the details of my story here.

But, much more needs to be said. More awareness needs to be made through the right resources, at the right times, and in an impactful manner. There are many men and organizations doing such, but I’m not sure if they are being heard. I went to my second Prostate Health Educational Symposium this year that was held at a church which includes approximately over 1,200 men in their congregation, but the symposium only attracted about 15-20 men. Very good for the few who attended, but very sad for the thousands who didn’t – not because they couldn’t, but because they chose not to.

I’m challenging you (again) #NFL #MLB #DallasCowboys #Cowboysnation #TexasRangers and any other team or sport airing in the month of September. WAKE UP and RAISE UP!!! Millions of men watch your events on big screens with their families and friends at homes and tailgate parties. Let’s start a campaign. Sorry I’m not famous, or dead. If you won’t use me, use anyone. Just do it!!! How about that #Nike or even #Adidas #Reebox #UnderArmor and so on. There are millions of men who love sports more than their health. Let’s get in their faces and help save lives. It’s game time!

It’s September again

   
It’s September, also known as #prostatecancer awareness month. I will be a 9-year survivor this December. There needs to be more awareness for this. More men need to know and get checked. I really wish the #NFL would help get the word out since they heavily attract men’s attention during the entire season. It’s great to raise awareness for #breastcancer in October with all the pink, and I support that. But there are millions of men who watch football and unknowingly become victims of prostate cancer because they won’t get screened. Please help us, #NFL to encourage more men get their heads off the field, beyond the TV screen, and on their health!

2015 PSA is…

Just got my 2015 “ultra sensitive” PSA result today. Drumroll…

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YES!!! Still undetectable in 8+ years! I’m so thankful and totally undeserved of God’s mercy. I’m still very thankful for the screening I took part of back in October 2006. Without it I wouldn’t have known and would not have been able to experience “early detection.” So why have some put a stop to community PSA screenings??? Stay tuned. I have a lot to say about this. But for now, I’ll just smile and say, “Thank You, LORD!”😀

I’m 50 today!

It’s April 7. I have reached the landmark age of FIVE–0!!! It is totally by GOD’s mercy that I’m able to reach this age, 8+ years after being diagnosed with prostate cancer. I don’t deserve to be here. I’m so thankful to be here for my wife and kiddos and to help many brothers who go through the same thing. Just had a brother approach me this past Saturday and inform me that he tested positive. He asked for prayer and I said let’s do this now! Then yesterday, I went to my urologist for another annual PSA check up. Should have the results soon and you know I will post them here. For 8+ years I’ve been going to Methodist Hospital in Dallas, more specifically the Texas Urology Specialists, to get the “ultra-sensitve” PSA with the more accurate reading, as opposed to the general < or = to .05. My doctor said since I’ve remained rock solid in the undetectable range he doesn’t see a need for me to continue getting the ultra-sensitive results. But I really like to know so I said, “Let’s do it one more time.” Shoot, I may ask for it again next year!😉 Stay tuned for the results in a few days.

Happy New Year!!!

Happy New Year, brothers. It’s been a while since I’ve posted anything. I’ve been so busy that I forgot to post this past Sunday, December 28 marked my 8-year anniversary of being prostate cancer free!!! Woo hoo!!!!! It’s 2015 and time to continue raising more awareness to help save more brothers’ lives. Here we go!

Football season is the best time…

I love football season, especially the NFL. I always get pumped watching my favorite teams beat up on the ones I hate, and it’s such a downer when the season is over. There’s a lot of health/charity awareness being promoted and it’s a great time since there are millions of viewers who tune in for every battle on the field. October is full of breast cancer awareness with all the pink cleats, pink towels, pink caps & shirts, and pink trimmings spread out all over the place. Even the fans get involved with pink costumes and face paint.

But, what I’m really the most concerned about is why there’s absolutely no awareness for prostate cancer??? With as many men who watch football, you’d think there’d be light blue all over the screen during September, which is the month traditionally used for its awareness. I guess maybe there needs to be the right celebrity or right amount of money spent to make it happen. I’ve been trying the best way I know to make it known by contacting the NFL or even the Dallas Cowboys (my home team) to see if I can at least spark some interest and get it started. I guess my emails/messages get lost in the sea of everybody else’s emails. I even handed one of my business cards to a famous coach (retired) and told him of my desire to raise awareness in the league. Maybe I’m just a nobody; not famous at all, and I surely don’t have enough money. Is that what it takes? Does it take Hollywood or something to raise the right amount of awareness and save men’s lives??? I’m just a guy who’s blessed to be able to say, “I’m a prostate cancer survivor” and I jump on any opportunity to help more and more brothers become aware and get themselves screened. I’m still here for a purpose, and to use a football reference I just can’t sit on the sidelines and keep my survival and awareness to myself. I would love to do it on a larger scale with a much bigger male audience, and I can’t think of a better one than the NFL. I really, really, really wish they would put the word out. If they need a famous name or face, then they should get one. But either way, please, NFL, or any team in the league, let’s tell men about something that affects us on a grand scale while only a relative few know about it. Maybe one day it will happen. There’s always next season…

I’ve addressed this before. Read it here.